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Old 08-08-2022, 09:46 AM
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Default Retirement conundrum….

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How do I explain to my still working from home wife that I need a nap after changing strings on the 12 string?
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Old 08-08-2022, 09:59 AM
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lol! If that's your biggest concern than retirement is treating you well.
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Old 08-08-2022, 10:02 AM
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….ask her to change them next time and she’ll likely understand….
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….ask her to change them next time and she’ll likely understand….
I like that one.
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Wait. Are you saying you’re retired and you changed all 12 strings during this change? It’s confusing. On the one hand I think you deserve a nap after just 6. On the other hand If you’re doing all 12 then I can see why you’d need a nap.
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Welcome to the club and no explanation is necessary. Enjoy your retirement! Perhaps it's easier at my house since I just retired in May but my wife has been retired for over a decade.
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Old 08-08-2022, 06:59 PM
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How do I explain to my still working from home wife that I need a nap after changing strings on the 12 string?
Sorry..
she can't understand...
then you have to tune it.
the struggle..
it's real!
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Well my wife worked for seven years after I retired and she never asked me to explain anything. Maybe that will be your case. Unless you are the one to need an explanation for you actions. In which case, tell yourself that you are tired and leave her out of it. I'm serious, if she is going to continue to work, you are going to have to learn to allow her to do so.
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It's been said that 12-string players spend 15% of their lives restringing their instruments and another 15% just tuning them.



Congrats and enjoy your retirement!
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Just wait until she’s on a phone call and sashay your way up to the bedroom. Could be hours before she’ll notice.
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I've been retired about 25 years. Big lesson learned early on: Never ask your still-working wife "Sweetie, what day is this"?
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I wait till my wife is on the phone with her buddies. Then I ask her to keep it down while I sneak off into the music room.....
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Welcome to the club and no explanation is necessary. Enjoy your retirement!
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Old 08-09-2022, 07:40 AM
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Welcome to retirement, Slothead.
I'd have posted sooner, but I was napping ��

Wife asked me what my plans for the day are. I replied, "Nothing."
She states, "That's what you did yesterday. "
I thought a moment then said, "But I wasn't finished."
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Old 08-09-2022, 07:56 AM
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...How do I explain to my still-working-from-home wife that I need a nap after changing strings on the 12-string?
My (also retired) wife and I own five 12-strings between us...

I've always done all the routine between-gig/on-site tech work, including string changes...

She knows all too well what's involved in 12-string maintenance...

No explanation needed...
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