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I was once in a very similar situation. Horrible person - worst 'boss' I ever had; did everything you're NOT supposed to do regarding motivation, respect, team building, etc. Just awful.
I kept records, I bit my tongue (a lot), I waited until I felt certain that I had enough evidence so that something would have to be "done", and then I went to her boss about it. Big mistake ... he listened intently, agreed that the behavior was unsatisfactory and assured me he would look into it. No matter how often I asked and got more assurances, nothing ever got resolved. About a month or so after that, I got transferred to a different location and lo and behold my position there got "downsized" 4 months later and I was let go. I am very good at what I do, I have never been "let go" from any other job, ever. I went to HR and told them the whole story and they said they'd look into it ... well you can guess how that turned out. My dismissal was determined to be "purely the result of downsizing" ... and that was that. Clearly I handled the situation poorly, but in any event I didn't have the money for an attorney so basically I was out of luck ... That all being said; I wouldn't waste too many cycles trying to "fix" this person or the situation. Yes, I would document everything and keep detailed accounts of his/her behavior, but I would make my primary goal to find another job and get out of there ASAP. I wouldn't even flame her on the way out the door; that will only feel good for about 30 seconds and then you have an enemy at the management level in your professional community. I know they don't deserve any consideration, but you're talking about your survival here, not theirs ... play the 'long game'. ...
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It appears there are far more issues involved with the OP's situation than just a lousy supervisor? I hope he gets his numerous problems resolved, and this whole saga will have some sort of a happy ending? Don |
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I think there have been several, and probably enough suggestions given here to help or not...some have been arguably unethical. For this reason, I believe this thread has run its course.
Thank you all for trying to help a fellow AGF member in need.
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