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@raysachs--Ray, my heart goes out to you and your family. You did everything more than right by him, but none of us gets to control the results. Terrible tragedy.
You have a grandchild on the way, big congrats on that. Our first one arrived in July (a girl), you have no idea how emotional and great it will be!
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Ray,
Thanks for taking the risk of sharing your story. I'm so sorry to hear of this tragic loss and hope that you take comfort in knowing the wonderful part you and your wife played in his life while you could.
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Thanks again for all the kind words from everyone... -Ray
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I'm thankful that I'm still alive after finding out I have stage 4, incurable, inoperable, prostate cancer a year ago. So far the meds I take are doing an amazing job and it allows me to enjoy more time with my wife, kids, grandkids, sibs, and the rest of my family and friends.
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I pray you will find peace in this eventually, and that you'll come to be kind to yourself for all you did for this troubled soul. You fought the good fight, Ray. Be easy on yourself. All the Best, Scott |
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I wish you well! It's really good to have a positive attitude as you do about this kind of illness. I hope you still have plenty of time with your family! Take care and Happy Thanksgiving! - Glenn
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I'm thankful for my great AGF friends.
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Hang in there - savor every moment... -Ray
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I'm retiring. 12/23/20 will be my last day at the office. I had a massive cancer scare in the fall of 2018. It ended with an amputation of my right leg to save my life. It's been a huge adjustment to a new life that is so much different than before.
But I'm still here. There was a time when it was doubtful that I would live to see retirement. But I did. Being handicapped sucks, I won't try to sugarcoat it. Being alive does not suck. I highly recommend it So to be here to aggravate the grandkids, watch them roll their eyes when I tell my grandpa jokes, to dispense questionable advice to my kids, to have a wife that tolerates me with the patience of Job, to play guitar badly and sing even baddlier, I'm thankful. |
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Man, I'm glad you're still with us! What an ordeal! And congratulations on your coming retirement in December! That is wonderful for you to have reached that point! Happy Thanksgiving! - Glenn
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Thanks Glenn and I wish you and your family have a wonderful day as well.
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Such power and bravery in all the responses here. I'm truly touched and humbled.
Interestingly, Ray, my son-in-law is going through some similar issues with the son from his first marriage. It took me decades to let myself off the hook for things I did to hurt others, or things I didn't do and shouldn't have. But we are human. We are imperfect. And we are not all-powerful. Finally I learned the hard lesson in a saying I came to realize: "Let's stop convicting ourselves of crimes we haven't committed." It took me a long time to learn that lesson. Go easy on yourself. Scott Memmer |