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Thinking about quitting lessons
So, I've been taking guitar lessons for a few months now and I'm thinking about quitting. My teacher is very good but very serious about technique and playing in time(which I guess he should be) but I feel like having a strict regiment of scales and a song that I'm supposed to have learned by the next week, sort of takes the fun out of playing for me.
Playing guitar for me, is a way to unwind after a hard day of factory work. Also, a hard day at the shop, leaves my body(and hands) sore. So I don't feel like I'm giving the stuff he gives me to practice, the time and attention it deserves because I either don't have the time(because of working overtime) or the energy. Plus, I know I'm never going to be a professional musician, it's just a hobby for me. What do you think, should I stick with it a little longer and see what happens? |
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Thank me later. |
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I've seen some of his videos, it's a great channel for learning guitar. My lessons were very focused on bluegrass flat picking, which isn't as easy to find good videos on YouTube for, unfortunately. Thanks though.
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Only you can answer that question. It sounds like what he is teaching you will be of value as long as you play music. Of course, there is always the goal of the student, which some teachers seem to better address than others. In other words, maybe he is the wrong teacher fo you?
It sounds like you work hard. Don't feel bad about taking a break from lessons. You have other priorities. What if you took a few weeks off to think about it? It is a service you are paying for after all. Maybe talk to a few other teachers and be upfront about your goals and expectations? |
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(2) It's good to have demands and requirements to meet. On the other hand, hey. Do whatever you want.
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Keep up the good work sir!
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I think you should follow your heart, take a break from the lessons, and see what gels from them in your own time. It’ll come. Thank your teacher and take some more lessons if/when you’re ready. Best wishes.
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Ya gotta have fun playing guitar. Lessons are only good if they help you have more fun. Obviously there’s work involved. But it should be fun.
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Also, I love playing bluegrass but I also love heavy metal and blues. I've been trying so hard to learn the stuff he's giving me, to the level that he expects me to play it, that I haven't picked up my electric guitars in months. I appreciate everyone's input. This is a great forum, it's nice to hear some friendly constructive criticism and different opinions, to help with my decision. |
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Guitar playing should be fun. It sounds like you maybe ready to play it your way. 😉 |
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Just reduce the frequency; a lesson every two weeks instead of every week. You keep the discipline and structure of professional tuition, but gain time to indulge in some fun stuff too. If your teacher won't agree to it, find another one who will. I've been with my current teacher for a year, but I got through three others before I signed up with him.
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IMO, utilize guitar lessons for techniques since theory is online and not difficult to learn.
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If you think of this as a long term learning curve then slow and steady will win the race. Learn proper technique and timing but at a pace you are comfortable with. This will leave time for fun stuff. Win win. |
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Good luck
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I've been teaching guitar for over 40 years and if there is one thing I know for sure it is that a good teacher needs to constantly assess the student's needs, desires and potential. These things can and usually do change as time passes. The vast majority of the many hundreds of students I've had are just like you: they want to see progress, they want to learn what's important in terms of technique and theory but most of all, they are doing it for their own enjoyment with no aspirations of glory. I always factor that into my lesson planning, which I do on a weekly basis for each and every student. A teacher who's bound to one course of study or a strict regimen and a "one size fits all" way of teaching is doing his or her students a disservice in the long run. Sooner or later, as the student makes progress he will figure out what he really wants to play in terms of music styles and techniques, and often that is quite different than his ideas when he started. A teacher who doesn't recognize this and is more of the "my way or the highway" type is not going to be successful in the long run.
Look, at the risk of sounding cynical (OK, it is cynical!) it is much, much easier for a teacher to stick to a rigid course of study: little or no lesson planning to do! When you can play page 10, we will go on to page 11 and not before! My whole family is and where professional musicians, some quite known and very successful and "serious musicians." My dad, who was a very well known drummer in the Big Band days was the sweetest, kindest man who ever lived - except when it came to learning an instrument. Watching him and my uncle and my grandfather teach in a rigid way taught me that for some people (most, I think) this traditional way of teaching music is fraught with anxiety and stress for the student, mixed with varying amounts of satisfaction of accomplishment. I knew there had to be a better way. No guitar teacher should ever forget for one minute that their students are there because they want to be and they often need not only a guitar teacher but a cheerleader. A good teacher never forgets to focus as much on what the student CAN do as well as what he can't! But in spite of my best efforts, for one reason or another there is the occasional student for whom I am not a good match. I accept this and if that becomes apparent I do not hesitate to suggest they either take some time off from lessons - or find another teacher. Some guitar teachers I've seen over the years are unable to do this and I suspect that has more to do with their ego than caring about what's right for the student. So, I suggest that you take some time off from your lessons, digest what you've learned and then either go back to your present teacher with specific questions and clarify your needs and expectations.....or find another teacher. Good luck and I hope you keep playing! Gene |