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heh heh, you got me, I didn't put much thought into the phrasing. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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I play in a band fronted by two females. I like to think that people come see us play for the lady's skills and not their looks - although they are both attractive. I often compliment them on their attire and performances (in no particular order). I don't think they find it offensive, but its something that I will now consider. Last edited by jdmulli; 11-15-2017 at 12:04 PM. |
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You being someone they know saying "You gals look sharp tonight " is one context and only they can actually relate how they might think about it But some dweeb shouting from the audience "Hey baby " is a completely different context and everybody "should " be able to understand that it is not appropriate by any stretch. And as far as being asked to smile ? If the asker does the same to male performers then it is arguably benign, but unfortunately that more often than not ---is not the context . Here is a great song by an outstanding songwriter with an observation on the subject
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Welp, that didn't take long.
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You may have missed the first part of my post that you quoted.
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Please do not read into my posts opinions you guess I might have. Depend rather on the actual words I chose. I would appreciate it. cotten |
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I think maybe I'll go ask a few female musicians I know how they feel about this topic...
You know... get a woman's perspective on the impact of our culture on women in music... |
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Please do! And, please let us know what you learn.
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I am a woman. I jam with other musicians. I like to be judged on the person I am and the music I play. I have more musician friends than in other places because music makes me less of a social misfit.
Attitudes toward women in music is no different than attitudes to women in other walks of life. Some good, some bad. In a patriarchal society we have to accept that. Being overly sensitive and not being able to laugh at oneself and the culture one grew up in causes a bunch of negativity in one's life. I don't need that. Jan |
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Plenty of women our there aren't willing to accept it. I support and admire that.
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One can "accept it" in the sense of resignation - never expecting, hoping for, or attempting to bring about positive change. Or one can "accept it" merely in the sense of an internal acknowledgement of the present status quo and a personal resolve not to let oneself be affected by it more than necessary. I think it's possible, though perhaps not easy, to "accept" something in the second sense while not "accepting" it in the first sense. Last edited by cmd612; 11-16-2017 at 10:02 AM. |
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You are right, Cmd.
I am not resigned to the status quo, I stand up for myself and other women, always have. I am not one of the "flaming hair" feminists, only concerned with themselves and their perfect place in society. A more relaxed attitude toward the issue makes me happy. I have many male friends so I know they appreciate who I am and how I think. I stay away from those whose attitudes I don't like and it works perfectly. Jan |
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Seeing people stand up for change and stand up for themselves can at time make people uncomfortable. I wonder if that's part of what generates such labels. Quote:
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