Wait for the ink to dry on the divorce first. If you're lonely join a club. Play some open mics. Hang around with a crowd with similar interests. If you come across somebody with similar values then pursue it slowly and let is take its course, but don't be in a rush to be with somebody just because you're lonely.
Also, go to the gym and exercise. Get the endorphins going. It will change your mood. Don't ogle the women though; you're on the rebound. They don't want to be bothered by somebody who's "needy" anyway.
As for the holidays, don't you have siblings or friends from work to hang around with.
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(2006) Larrivee OM-03R, (2009) Martin D-16GT, (1998) Fender Am Std Ash Stratocaster, (2013) McKnight McUke, (1989) Kramer Striker ST600, a couple of DIY builds (2013, 2023)
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