Not an audiophile, in fact I didn't even know what that meant not so long ago... but I appreciate nice sounding equipment.
One time I was in the market for headphones and found a forum that was for headphones. I didn't realize it was a audiophile specific forum. I asked some questions on what headphones I should buy , between the few I had narrowed it down to. Heh.... I pretty much got "run out of town".. guess they didn't like what I picked out for myself, lol. That is when I learned what being an audiophile meant... probably not the nicest way to be introduced to that culture, lol
PS,
Just took a look and I still had the page bookmarked. This was the site:
http://www.head-fi.org/f/