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Old 01-10-2020, 07:27 PM
ahorsewithnonam ahorsewithnonam is offline
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Originally Posted by AmericanEagle View Post
Good advice, and others have said the same.
I am just very lonely. The holidays were rough.
Hey AE, hope I didn’t sound harsh. I’m kind of the opposite. I love being alone! Dating would be the last thing on my mind if I were getting a divorce.

Like I said, don’t rush it. Relax, read books, work out, play guitar, go to dinner with a friend, take long walks, get to know yourself again.

I have 3 buddies. Recently divorced in the past 24 months. Two guys just love the freedom of doing what they want, whenever, without answering or explaining to anyone.

The other guy is......well......needy. Has to have someone. He has dated and is now involved with several women with kids, problems, issues, drama, needing money, emotional support......just a mess and he is worse off than when he was married.

No thanks. Dude.....just enjoy yourself for a long while.
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