Love songs
How do you write love songs? I've written hundreds of songs, and many are good — like Forrestal, very very good.
But my love songs are duds. Sometimes maudlin, sometimes trite, always an embarassment. Heartbreak songs, too. It's not something I'm going to bang my head against — you can't get a pearl from a clam — but I am curious about how you write a love song that works. |
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I do better when I write in the third person about someone else. For whatever reason, telling someone else's love story is much easier and less sappy. And the point of the song is the same whether it's done in 1st person or 3rd person.
A love song in the first person has to be much more subtle to be effective and not sappy, something like Paul Simon's "Kathy's Song." - Glenn |
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(In fact, "Over and Over and Over" is probably a title waiting for a song.) |
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Sounds like I'm on the right track, anyhow. Thanks! |
I find it works better if I’m the loser in the story. You always feel your own pain more than someone else’s, as selfish as that may sound. And that makes it more authentic, which makes for a better song. And I like to toss in a little rueful irony, too, if possible - it kinda removes some of the depression. I’m not so good at happy love songs - lost love songs I can do much better.
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Most of mine are pretty upbeat, a few are broken heart criers, a couple of them pretty good. But there are 2 head and shoulders above the rest, both written from real life observed experience, which is very rare for me. One expresses deep doubt about your lover and helplessness in the situation. This I wrote from observing a married couple...thats it...just observing them in social situations. I was proven correct later. The other is the best lyric I've ever done. I ran into an old aquaintence in the grocery store parking lot and he related the confrontation he had with his spouse that morning, a complete surprise to me, they were the "perfect couple" in our circle, but even more surprising to him. He spilled his guts right there and I'm not a doctor, but he appeared to be in something like shock. He was just gutted, heading home to he knew not what. I went home, stewed on it overnight, and the next morning was able to capture that shock, gut-wrenching uncertainty, and confidence slaughter in two short verses and a chorus. Never happened before or since, I usually struggle mightily with lyrics. That is why I keep my love songs happy, because it's easy for me; I am still deeply in love and unbelievably happy with my wife of nearly 40 years, the best person I have ever met.
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[QUOTE=ghostnote;7440221]I find it works better if I’m the loser in the story.
Then what about the no-one's-a-loser-I'm-just-in-love song? Quote:
I once heard Justin Hayward of Moody Blues interviewed on the once-big New York rock station WNEW.* The DJ asked him who inspired "Nights in White Satin." Hayward said no one. The DJ pushed. A song that beautiful must've been inspired by someone, right? Hayward said, "No. It's just a song." That's what I do. I write songs. They're hardly ever about you or me or a girlfriend or an ex. They're just songs. The few that are about an actual person are the terrrible ones. That's why I don't write many of them. Quote:
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------------------ * The one Harry Chapin made fun of in his song about WOLD. |
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John Mellencamp has over 500 songs published and he says he's not interesting enough to have 500 songs written about him. Write a love song for somebody else.
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None of my songs is actually about me. I use my own experiences as an emotional starting point sometimes, but even if the words sound like it’s personal, it really isn’t. Just stories. But 90% of my songs start with the music first - the music sets the mood, the mood inspires the story, and the story could be about anything. If one of my tunes ends up being a love song, it’s probably not because I was consciously thinking about love; it’s more likely that the music made me feel that way. I don’t have a lot of rules about writing, I try to just let it happen.
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I had a songwriting bandmate who only writes about himself but as far as I can tell hasn't done a single interesting thing in his life. Good therapy, bad music. |
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