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Hey Steve. I'll second a lot of what some people have said here. If you do actually leave, I wish you well. But since nobody else has yet done so and even though you're a big boy and can make your own decision, I'll ask because I'm not too proud to. Please, please, PLEASE don't go.
I always wonder though, of people that make the same choice you are making. Do they return and read all the posts about their leaving? If not then all this is for naught. Or is it? Anyway, hope I wasn't one of those in your "bad" column. take a little break and come back and give it a try. It could be so many influences going on right now that end up even affecting AGF. Your 6-12 month time frame figures right in with other recent public stresses. I've taken a few breaks myself and it can be helpful. Really, how can you go wrong with the song title trail game? The comment someone made that I think is worth considering is if the good ones leave, then it causes the balance to go in the wrong direction. Good luck. Peace brother.
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"The AGF forum overall has a very positive vibe where many knowledgeable and helpful people contribute. Great moderators also.
There will be some friction here and there, but that's life isn't it...?" +1 |
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I can fully appreciate someone's feelings and without agreeing or disagreeing, I respect anyone who has decided "it just ain't fun anymore."
Personally, I have decided to take a good hard look in the mirror before I respond to a post and see if my response is suitable. I find myself beginning to contain my responses to only those things I am experienced with and at the most offering a personal viewpoint and emphasizing that it is, in fact, personal. Sometimes, we can allow ourselves to be entrapped or sucked into petty arguments...guilty as charged. I will do my best to avoid that in the future and just continue to enjoy all the good stuff and great folks here on the AGF. I hope Pastor Steve comes back and if I was in any way a part of the problem, my sincerest apologies.
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This thread has gotten me thinking; I'm a member of a particular Cigar Forum for the last 18 years now (yeah, an OF!) THAT board is one of the meanest, foulest, argumentative & insulting places I've ever been (thoroughly enjoyable, if you have thick enough skin). Most of us "old timers" have become close personal friends over the years, with many cross country travels to hang together for events drawing 50- 125 people.
Even with that close a brotherhood, there are still lots of long time members leaving similar "Goodbye" posts (albeit for different reasons than "niceness"). Usually stating something to the effect of, "This USED to be such a GREAT PLACE, but now it's changed..." Sometimes change is just evolution... I hope things work out for the best for you Steve...
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Nothing we type here has any urgency to it - if this is a true emergency, hang up and dial 9-1-1 already! Before you post - - is it necessary? - is it kind?
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I also think as some have pointed out that the eloquence of our tongues have been somewhat negated by the harshness of our typing. It truly can be hard to understand someone's point of view when there are no facial expressions, vocal inflections, or hand gestures to guide us. I've personally had a couple heated discussions with some members here, and had met them in person and thought they were pretty amazing. I also made a New Year's resolution to just walk away, even if I thought some's opinion went undebated or unchallenged. Have bigger fish to fry - well, smoke! |
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I don't really see that much negativity to be honest. Arguing differing opinions is a healthy interaction. Nobody forces me to click on any threads so I easily avoid stuff I don't want to read. Nobody forces me to be on this forum either so leaving at anytime is an option. If I decided to leave I would probably just log off. I am afflicted with the thirst for knowledge so I won't be going anywhere. If you want to see negativity visit some of the sports forums I am on. One particular NCSU forum has become unreadable. I heard Facebook is negative these days but I will never dive into that cesspool. Good luck to everyone and I love you all whether we agree or disagree.
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It's just a forum, at the end of the day. We're not trying to solve world peace here. Like every other forum, there are self appointed experts here and then those who really know from years of playing. The trick is always to shovel through the muck and figure out who is right.
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I think a little differently than others. I'm okay with that. So if my thoughts are different than yours, is that being negative? If that's the case then most people are negative to me. Should I leave? I don't try to tell anyone what to do or how to think. Or even that their ideas are dumb. You write your thoughts and I'll write mine. I thought that's what we did here. If we're just supposed to me nice and stroke each other then I am in the wrong place.
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If you are done...Shalom. But I hope not.
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