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I also vaguely recall A sociologist (perhaps Cooley?) saying something along the same lines of your musings: the self is composed, in part, of fantasies we hold about how others see us. Thus if we do not have contact with others who allow the ongoing conjuring of such fantasies, things can (if we are sensitive enough, and don't shore up the sense of self with other constructed strategies) start to destabilize. A fine post, and thoughtful (how's that for a groovy reflection). |
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Many self driven people simply don't fit in because of their internal drive . Isaac Newton would be a good example of this . The measures of courtesy and decency vary greatly with different cultures . The irony of it all is that these misfits often end changing the world around them . Sometimes good and sometimes bad . |
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I feel especially destabilized on Mondays ,
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For example, how many artists, scientists/etc have extreme doubts in their abilities? For many people, is this manufactured version of self important to drive forward ideas and execution? How much of us have a (maybe mistaken) belief that we are better than we are? How important is that to keep us going through periods where maybe we aren't that good, until we really get good? Maybe that idea of self knowledge is less important when you are young and inexperienced... and becomes much more important as time goes on? Certainly for me the desire for self awareness has markedly increased with age. Another reason it's painful to get old.
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Probably a bit off topic - but I found your observation very true , H |
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I don't get why you say seeking more self awareness with age is painful . Unless that's about facing unpleasantries () that have been avoided . I got that process moving right along back in 1988 at drug/alcohol rehab, so I'm used to looking at the ugly parts of myself . I guess it might seem less painful if someone never does it , but I'd much rather be how I am now, instead of having continued to carry around all the pain and psychological garbage I had been burdening myself with. But I do think it's mostly impossible not to work from perspectives that are somehow built with input from and in relation to the outside . (Altered- state internal realms being an exception). With regards to creativity , it's also almost impossible to create in a vaccuum, without inspiration from others, expectations that others will see creativity's fruits , or some desire to share those fruits . So yeah, some manufactured versions of self are basically always operating in everyone , and usually automatically .
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If anyone's seen the cult classic 'Performance,' the most interesting idea in it, for me, is that of identity and its illusory nature and fragility. When Mick Jagger's and Anita Pallenberg's characters provide a hideout to gangster-on-the-run James Fox, they spike him with a strong magic mushroom and proceed to take his tough-guy persona apart, revealing a tender and feminine side of which Fox had been totally unaware.
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I know in the local (although the national scene makes me wonder) music scene back in the day in a good sized city, the guys competing for the music gigs who only thought they were good did not get and KEEP a spot in the circuit. They might BS their way into a slot here & there, but pretty quickly they either cut it or didn't. Of course then the artiste angst kicks in against the heathens who didn't realize how talented they really were. |
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