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I debated on if I thought I should respond to this thread or not, but regardless of the wisdom of responding or not if there is a chance that my story be encouragement to you, it is something I should share with you.
Two and half years ago I thought my days of playing the guitar were over. I thought my days of playing anything were over. A severe arthritic condition that seemed to be the perfect storm where arthritis surrounding the inflamed tendon in my shoulder was leveraging off of each other. The only thing that seemed to help were stabilization, pain killers, muscle relaxers, and anti-inflammatory meds. I could not raise my hand from my side more than 3-4 inches without pain emitting from the shoulder across my back and down my arm to my fingers. I had to use my right hand to raise my left hand to the desktop in front of me so I could type on the keyboard and do my job. It wasn't pretty Today, I play my guitars, can put on a **** without help, drive, and have almost all of my motion restored. The medications I took to minimize the symptoms of the condition did nothing to diminish the issue, they only made it less unbearable. I know what that meant to me and how troubling it was, so in that regard I feel for your situation and think I understand a dimension of your pain, but also realize that what you're dealing with is different. It is different not just because it is an affliction of a different part of the body but it is YOUR body and happening to you. So I get it. I'm not sure what your faith structure is and I'm not going to throw this into a religious discussion, but I want you to know that miracles do happen everyday, and I attribute my prognosis not to the doctors or anything other than divine intervention on my behalf. I'm evidence of that. There wasn't an amazing medical procedure that restored my motion and removed the debilitating pain. I would suggest like others that you continue to play as it is a therapy like none other that engages the physical, mental and spirit. If you're uncomfortable with performing then you may want to consider getting into recording as a performance art to replace the stage. Perhaps hanging it up isn't as much in order as shifting gears and finding a new way to involve what you enjoy in a different way.
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Please do not despair. I went to see Glen Campbell in his farewell (due to alzheimers') concert a little while back. His guitar playing was amazing. And he was having a great time while surrounded by his family onstage. His playing was automatic and probably due to muscle memory. He did however, use a monitor at his feet to read the lyrics. He messed up a few times during his performance but kept right on like a pro, even joking about his goofs.
Please don't give up playing, go until you have your guitar taken away from you. It will always make you feel good, even if you don't remember it later. Not making light of your plight. This is advice coming from a person who has that aweful disease in the immediate family. |
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Dave, I sort of agree with the second poster, if it is not fun, why do it.
But I would also put forward that if I could remember all the songs I learned since taking up acoustic guitar in 1990 (I am 61 now) I could be on the road! As least as I can see, songs come and go, you may remember you knew how to play it but can't remember any other bit about it. So what? If you can sit on your front porch and learn a new, one good for you! Move on. You play for you. Hope that everything works out for you. |
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I agree with those who question why there needs to be a decision. At some point, you may rather not play than play, and it’ll be gradual. Enjoy the ride as best you can for now.
Shared a school program in NC recently with Dennis Cash (a Pied Piper if ever there was one), who was recently elected to the Old-Time Music Hall of Fame--and he performs with an iPad on a mic stand (mic or no), containing set lists, lyrics & chords. Easier to manage than paper song sheets or sheet music on a flimsy folding stand. I know people who’ve been using lyric sheets since their 40s, and it doesn’t keep them from getting gigs or relating to their audiences. If anything, it expands their repertoire. I’ll sometimes use printed lyrics if I’m playing a brand new song in a writers’ exchange (where new songs and critique are expected) or seldom-performed covers for which I get a request. Recently, I’ve had a couple of instances of left hand paresthesia in my pinkie, caused by neck arthritis--I remember how to make the chords, but my pinkie refuses to behave and sometimes even goes numb. I just roll with it and say “take 2; and call me in the morning.” Stuff happens. If I know it’s going to happen, I alter the chord melody to take that finger out of the equation.
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Ending something as meaningful and enjoyable as pickin' on your terms seems important to you. You will make the right choice for you.
Why do you play guitar? What is it about your situation that challenges the reason why you play? Is this about guitar, or is this about desiring to make an empowered choice to exhibit some control over a situation in which you feel very little control? Those are some of the questions I'd be pondering. Hang in there brother. |
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Don't be a couch potato musician, keep moving, stretching, strengthening. |
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hear this. Hopefully things will turn around for you. |
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Playing a musical instrument is definitely exercising the brain; in fact, it pretty much utilizes all areas of the brain. That can only be a good thing. The brain is a lot like muscle; it needs use and stimulation to stay healthy and strong. Physical exercise is also very important for brain health and can improve cognitive functioning, including short-term memory. I know you have a chronic pain condition and I don't know what your physical limitations are, but if there is any type of exercise you can do 30 min at least 3x's a week, that too can only improve your general health and may help your short term memory.
Pain certainly affects cognitive functioning, as anyone who has every had to work/study/take an important test while suffering from a severe headache or toothache can relate to. And, prescription pain medications can cause memory impairment, as can some other medications as well. Pain can also interfere with sleep, and some sleep medications can interfere with REM sleep, which is very important for restorative sleep. If you're not getting enough sleep, or enough quality sleep, that too can affect cognitive functioning. Have you explored the use of complementary therapies that could be helpful in controlling pain, reducing stress, and aiding sleep? Yoga, hypnotherapy, mindfulness meditation, to name a few. The last, mindfulness meditation, has been proven to be effective with chronic pain patients, as well as many other benefits. If you live near a hospital that offers the Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction program, which teaches mindfulness meditation specifically for chronic pain patients, it would be well worth checking into. I hope you find something that helps, my friend. Whatever you do, don't give up on your guitar playing. Adapt, but don't quit. Lots of people use an ipad app for lyrics and chords or tab. And do explore all the options out there for managing your pain and memory issues. Just because you haven't found sufficient help yet doesn't mean you won't.
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Another thing not mentioned yet is that you have wisdom to pass on. Write your story or mentor a kid. Showing us what you got doesn't just have to be only in the context of playing a guitar. |
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So sorry and I'm praying you will know when and how to meet that decision if it indeed arrives, and that you are supported in the decision. |
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Chronic pain leads to depression.
Loss of perceived self-worth related to a disability is a major factor in depression. Your description of your issues sounds like a text book case of clinical depression. You have serious life-altering factors that can lead to this, so it is not a sign of weakness to admit it. Please talk to your doctor about a non-narcotic SNRI medication like Cymbalta, (which recently went generic) or Effexor and see if in a few weeks your mood turns around. Last edited by FluffyDog6; 08-11-2014 at 01:22 AM. Reason: grammar |
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It's very frustrating to begin playing a fingerstyle piece and suddenly have the flow of memory cease and be unable to finish it. Playing guitar is such a big part of my self identity. I have tried to be a hero and take half the dosage of meds I am prescribed, but wake up every night around 3am from pain unable to go back to sleep and get up and sit on the couch reading guitar forums. I have no issue with strumming chords and playing them along with a song, at least not yet. I long ago got bored with that level of playing though. I realize a lot of people would love to be able to just get to that point. When I was certified as totally disabled from chronic intractable pain I thought my full time job would be to master playing fingerstyle with all the hours I would have available to me. That was three years ago. I made great progress early on but around 6 months ago it went to pieces with forgetting major parts of everything I try to play. The mental debilitation of worrying about it doesn't help. I intend to hang with it as long as I can, but if it gets worse I will give up with dignity and have a great memory of the four decades when I could play. Thanks again. |
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We'll it's apparent that you're not alone in your situation. Many of us are or will be facing these issues down the road. The only advice I could offer is to maybe just forget about songs you've learned in the past. Just noodle, and maybe write some songs of your own. I've been playing guitar for 50 years and my playing has changed in the last five or so from constantly learning someone else's songs (then struggling to remember lyrics in my case), to writing my own songs. Now, 90% of my playing is spent on my own songs and it's been a new source of inspiration for me. It doesn't have to involve lyrics. Find a nice melody then try to fit in the framework of a song. So, I guess I agree with many others on here that I think you should follow your doctor's advice regarding your meds, and keep playing, but make your own songs even if it means a new one every day.
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