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Isn't this place where people express their opinions? To a lot of people, pointing out where they might be wrong is, to them, "not nice"
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I've heard this before; however, I think most people are more direct and "brutal" face-to-face than they are online because a potentially offensive message delivered to a physical person is mitigated by facial expression and tone of voice.
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To me, it's about respect. We can disagree on a topic, but we can disagree with civility. And opinions. Everyone's got 'em, but not everyone is right/wrong. And about pride. Sometimes, you just have to get up, and walk away from a heated discussion.
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Often times when a dissenting opinion is expressed it is automatically viewed as not being polite, after all how could anyone disagree with me? As Desert Twang said:"To me as German, "being nice" can be quite different from what Americans perceive as "being nice." For example, in my culture, it is perfectly acceptable - desirable, in fact - to articulate our thoughts in a direct way. People who are not familiar with that culture often mistake our directness for "not being nice," when in fact, we don't mean to imply any form of criticism or sarcasm. For us, it's about the product, the issue at hand, not so much about the personality." My German heritage follows me I guess. But I've also witnessed striking differences in my travels across this country as well. It is my opinion that these Freshman Philosophy 101 threads can be a thinly disguised attempt to pull out the worst in people while some sit back and chuckle under their breath and watch the fireworks. I'm not the owner of this board, and certainly not the arbiter, but it seems excessively contentious (and actually downright silly, IMO) to post a thread like this in a guitar forum. Perhaps in the Open Mic section, but not in the acoustic guitar section. What's with that? Was that polite and dignified, or not?
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But I know exactly what you mean, some folks are not willing to see the humor (humour?) in any situation. Bless my all-American auto correct for not wanting to let me type humor with a u in it. Anyway, as to the OP, I think you already know what's "nice" and what isn't and the real question is why are some people the way they are especially on a faceless isolated and non physical medium as the web. Want to see not nice? Go to any game forum and select any thread with more than four replies. One will certainly fill the bill. But more importantly, should I list my guitars in my sig or not? Last edited by Ciarre; 04-16-2014 at 03:50 PM. Reason: Typos |
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Okay, there were a few complaints about this discussion being in the GENERAL Acoustic Guitar Discussion section rather than being in the OPEN MIC section, so I have moved this discussion to the OPEN MIC section.
Hope this helps a little... - Glenn
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We can go on, and on, and on, and on, and on, and....
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Let's take it out to the car park !
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Oh no, Jon! Please NO!!! ...
- Glenn
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That sounds a little sissy. It should be "take it outside" or take it to the "parking lot". You won't intimidate anyone inviting them to go to the automotive repository.
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Darn. My soppy use of English has betrayed me again.
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+1 Nothing wrong with a healthy exchange of opinions especially when asked for.
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