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It would be nice if we can continue this conversation without aiming comments and insults at each other.
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As for the issue at hand, mental illness has many forms. Some people have agoraphobia. Some suffer from PTSD and cannot handle any sort of pressure because their fight or flight response now has a hair trigger. There is also a higher prevalence of autism spectrum disorder, which is often misunderstood but often involves a subdiagnosis of sensory processing disorder where the nervous system is overactive and the brain of many is still too immature to properly interpret or react to things going around them. A lot of people also suffer depression or bipolar disorder and have trouble even getting out of bed in the morning because they're stuck in a feedback loop of self judgment and deprecation. I'm more concerned about the people who think that everyone else is inferior to them. That could be construed as mental illness too, you know. Getting into why such people would be able to go buy guitars, the answer should be obvious: music is therapeutic and playing it rewires your brain. Sure, many are probably paying too much for what they're buying - but that's why we're here, right?
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As someone who suffers from anxiety/depression, I've seem many smirks and heard my share of "get over it comments" when I express my desire to not be around large groups of people for extended periods of time. |
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I'm a natural born recluse. Much about people I see as excess to my needs for companionship and camaraderie, neither of which I ascribe to, and there isn't an obligation on humanity to herd itself. The omni-socio aspects of society were essential when that alone was a method of survival and building strength in numbers but these days individuality is the changing demographic.
Shyness is but another way of saying a person wants nothing to do with obliging some archaic sense of community. Those who have a problem with people who do not herd never think of themselves as a part of that problem. They, instead, think of themselves as normal and that, in and of itself, is a repulsive self-aggrandizing trait I tend to avoid and if necessary shut out. Groups tend to cloister and pressure their surrounds with special interests that, in and of itself, is divisive to the greater whole. But, they don't see that because they can't. I'll give you one on-topic example in the genre of country music. I might be able to carry a tune in a wet paper sack but it won't sound like country, ever, and I'm not alone. But, that genre is a group unto itself dividing itself away from the whole of music. Same holds for other genres and their aficionados. With regard to public self-expression, some see music as a very private thing. It's no ones business and they keep it that way. Others think the minute two chords are learned they become instant entertainers by mere musical instrument association. I have no idea how they would arrive at that conclusion. Playing a musical instrument and being an entertainer I never knew were analogous but evidently some people don't see a distinction. Last edited by Pitar; 05-23-2017 at 04:11 PM. |
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We are simple beasts. Much like dogs, we like consistency.
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I swim 4-5 days per week at an athletic club, and almost every day see a very tall (6'3" or taller) young man who spends hours walking throughout various areas of the club. He gestures with his hands and talks to himself in the manner of many patients with schizophrenia with whom I interacted during a 30+ year career. The interesting thing is that nobody seems to pay a bit of attention to him as he makes his rounds throughout the club although I've seen various people interacting with him when he appears to take a break...
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I think the correct question is - What's up with people who can't empathize with other people ? Is it really that hard to just accept people just as they are ?
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Great alternative question. I think it's obvious that it IS hard to accept that people are different from one another. Clearly , to me anyhow, is the suspicion that there is a fear of something related to being different. I get that there is perceived to be safety in numbers. But I will point out that lemmings are an example of how that isn't always in our best interests. Maybe more insightful to hear responses that explain why it is important that people behave the same as one another. Or how to determine which things are critical for being the same and which are allowed to be individual. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Charlottesville is that kind of place which, despite high housing costs, is sometimes referred to as the Peoples Republic of Charlottesville....
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Like many things, experience and education (in this case, education regarding psychology and psychiatric conditions) tends to help us see others in a more nuanced (and, in many cases, a more compassionate) way. |