It's always when you are having a hard time getting something to sink in, that the instructor goes too fast and when you catch on quickly to something, they go too slow. The ActiveMelody guy is a little talky, but I got used to him. Tommy E, jumps over stuff and just says "PRACTICE", and "master this before going on," lol. Toby Walker has a good teaching pace in his video lessons.
I've notice with videos that I learn a bit faster than just with tab and play along, but I have to have the tab in front of me with the video. With a long song its a pain as I only have so much room on my desk.
1st world problems.